Accepting Criticism

One's humility might well be measured by the willingness to accept criticism. No one will deny the fact that we are all imperfect. This being so, then there is need for improvement in our lives. Be very aware that criticism can play an important part in our Christian growth. The legitimate aim of criticism should be to direct one's attention towards an ideal. Those of the world, on a whole, do not want to be criticized. Criticism is often viewed as a weapon of attack, rather than a tool for potential growth. Criticism is commonly countered with a defense and sometimes also with a counter-attack. It is most often received as something negative rather than positive.

Criticism can be quite painful when it pricks one's ego. If we refuse to accept justified criticisms, we may still feel the hurt, but it will not be from growing pains. Excuses, such as "That's just the way I am," are often offered in response to criticism. This attitude closes the door for change and growth. If there is no change, then there is no progress. Honesty plays a great part in our willingness to accept criticism. Sometimes we just don’t want to face up to what is being said and so we reject it as untrue. Many times criticism contains in itself at least a measure of truth, thus, it will always profit us to search for that truth. Truly, proper criticism, if rightly accepted, can be a means of correcting our faults, just as glasses enable us to see that our hands or clothing need washing. Then we can go to the Lord in prayer, ask His forgiveness and help in correcting the fault.

There will be times when we will be recipients of untrue criticism. When this happens, and it will happen, the way in which we receive it can also be either negative and hinder or positive and help us in our Christian walk. May we never forget that the Lord allows such things for some very beneficial reason in our life. Such experiences and how we receive them can be used as a measurement of our humility, honesty and desire to please the Lord. They can also be opportunities to let our light shine to the one bringing these things to our attention, whether true or not.

Jesus was constantly challenged and criticized by sinful men during the three and half year of His earthly ministry. The difference is that there was never any validity to even one of these criticisms or accusations. “…learn of Me, for I am meek and humble of heart” (Matt. 11:29 ).

E. Weeks